Ahoy Matey!

When asked what kind of a birthday party Brennan wanted, his response was an enthusiastic "PIRATE party!". So pirates it was!

Pirate Bounce House

Happy Birthday our little pirate!

A NEW bike!!!! He is already riding it like a pro.

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Happy Birthday Bren!

Dearest Brennan,

Three years old already? You entered our lives three years ago today, I should have known that you would be special with 05/05/05 as a birth date. I remember going into the hospital that morning three years ago, and having this combination of fear and excitement all wrapped up together. Then there was the moment with Dr. Gurwitt lifted you up and exclaimed that you were a BOY! I remember the uncertainly of the weeks that followed, the intense fear that we might lose you, and the joy of bringing you home once again with a healthy heart. We always said what a happy baby you were, like you knew there wasn't anything to worry about anymore. You knew you had already conquered the hardest thing.

I remember how excited I was to have a boy. I knew it would be different than how Emma was, but I never realized how different boys were! You are always running, jumping, leaping around the house. You enjoy playing with cars and dinosaurs, pretending to be a monster to scare your sister, and watching Scooby Doo. You make car noises and pirate voices and play with bugs. You love watching sports and wrestling with daddy. You are most definitely 110% boy.

You are also the cuddliest boy I know. You will come up and curl up on my lap and sit for awhile. As long as you have your blanket ,"elefunt" (elephant), and your thumb you are happy. You give the best hugs and have just about perfected the "fishy" kiss. Our "I love you" battles always put a smile on my face.

I know that every little child is a miracle, but you are truly our miracle. I know that God has this amazing plan for you and gave you a second chance because you are here to make a difference. I feel so blessed to be your mom and watch you grow. I love you more than words, little man.

Happy 3rd Birthday, Brennan!

7 Things

The rules:

Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog, some weird, some random.

Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs.

1. I am addicted to my DVR. It has literally changed my life:) I can "tape" any show I want, watch it whenever I want, and NEVER see commercials. It is pure joy for me. Oh and on that same note...I am addicted to checking email....you can rest assure that I will always check it at least 5 times a day, great way to get a hold of me!

2. I hate dirty fingernails on kids or adults for that matter. I have to cut my kids nails weekly just to keep them clean and trim...freaks me out when it is not done.

3. I am a total neat-freak. I mean, I do have the normal amount of things left out around the house, but clutter and extra stuff make me crazy. I cannot leave the house for a trip without it being somewhat clean, okay really clean. (thanks mom for that habit)

4. You can ask anyone close to me if I like to rearrange furniture and the resounding answer will always be "YES!!!". Tiffany makes fun of me because she says she will get lost in our house one day because I move everything around so much. What can I say, I like to change things up a bit!

5. I drive fast. Everywhere. Emerson told a friend of mine recently "My mom pushes really hard on the pedal!". I mean come on, I have places to go and not all day to get there.

6. I LOVE lists! I make lists for everything. I make them at work....at home....for groceries....Sometimes I even put things on my list that I've already completed....just so I can cross them off. Gives me a sense of accomplishment and a rush to keep getting stuff crossed off.

7. I am a news junkie. I read news all day long online and watch it every night. Look at my computer favorites at work or at home and the first item on there is Drudge (thanks to my husband for showing me that one years ago!) and our local newspaper for local stuff. I just like knowing what is happening in the world and my own backyard.

Okay, that's it! Now my turn to tag 7 of my friends!

1. Aimee
2. Paige
3. Carrie
4. Connie

Okay seriously...what a loser...I can only come up with 4 blogger friends:(

Open Wide!

Today was Brennan's first dentist appointment. See, two weeks ago he tagged along for Em's appt. at the dentist and he kept asking for his turn. So, I made him his own appt. He was SO excited to go today. I picked him up at daycare, got to the dentist and he played so happily while we waited in the waiting room. When we were called back, he practically skipped to his chair. He watched the movie on the little t.v. and waited so well for the dentist to come to us. Finally, she came over, made the chair go up (which he LOVED!), then started to lean the chair back. He opened his mouth nice and big, she put her little pointer tool in his mouth and WWWWAAAAHHHHH!!!!!!! The loudest scream ever....and wouldn't stop even when we got him out of the chair. He wanted NO more of that...could care less about his treat bag and didn't even want his special stuffed animal. Great, can't wait for the next dentist appointment!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

What does it mean when...

your 2 year old says, "Mommy, you know, You are REALLY driving me crazy!"?

Yep. He did say that...and most likely he heard it straight from my own mouth. Nice.

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Indian Canyons

After a great morning watching Emerson perform, we decided we couldn't be inside the rest of the day. Jeff's dad and Kathy were in town visiting for the weekend, so we decided to go for a hike in Indian Canyons, in northern Palm Springs. We couldn't have asked for better weather to enjoy this beautiful hike.

I have actually been to Indian Canyons with my 3rd graders for three years in a row now. Jeff had never been there, so it was fun to be able to show him all I have learned from going up there many times before. Emerson even enjoyed getting out and having her first real hike in nature.

The hike is only about 1 mile long. It runs in the middle of an amazing desert oasis where the Cahuilla Indians used to seek refuge from the desert heat. At this time of year the waterfalls are flowing and you can see why the Indians loved this place so much.

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Spring Performance

Our Little Polar Bear

Emerson's preschool has "Reader's Theatre" performance every so often. The student's usually sing a song that they have been working on in class. Well, their Spring performance is the grandest of all. So grand, that it was not even held at school, but at a local resort hotel. The title of the performance was "The Teddy Bear Picnic". Each class has a song and dance routine to tell part of the story. Emerson's class did the "Polar Bear Stomp". And for a shameless brag, our little girl, knew ALL the steps, without missing a beat. It was so cute!!! What a great excuse to miss work!Can you find her?

Lots of love,

The Grady's

I think it is safe to say...

that we have a little boy is officially potty trained!!!! HOORAY!

Of course, if he is anything like Emma, he will be in a diaper at night until he is 5! LOL!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Could it be...

I am being quite cautious, but optimistic.....but two days now, diapers only at nap time and bed time....not one accident....
Could it be the end of diapers in our house???

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Two Doctors, one day

Brennan had TWO Dr. appts. today. First we headed to see Dr. Hashmi, our favorite pediatric cardiologist. After waiting for almost an hour in the waiting room (sadly, he has too many heart babies to tend to), we finally made it into the first of the three exam rooms. I always dread these appts. for the simple fact that I know they are going to be long and they are going to do things that Brennan won't especially like. But, today Brennan was a dream, a real trooper. The echocardiogram was great, he was perfectly still for the EKG, got his blood pressure on the first try (unlike when he was a baby and we tried 5 times and finally gave up), and he held super still for Dr. Hashmi to check his pulse points. When all of that was done, Dr. Hashmi's conclusion, PERFECT! Our little man is doing great! His aortic arch (the surgically repaired piece) is growing very well, the "leaky" valve is holding strong, and blood pressures are all equal. We had a long talk about the "future" and what that will entail for Brennan's health. We will continue seeing Dr. Hashmi every year. We will also continue to watch the progress of the arch as he grows, as well as the valve. He has a 10% chance of needed a balloon catherization to open the arch if it constricts again (we already know how Brennan LOVES to fall in that 10%), and a fairly good chance of eventually needing a valve replacement when he gets older. But, right now, Brennan has a perfectly healthy heart! And to think that the scar we see everyday, the one that has faded to almost nothing (can you see it?), is becoming more and more a distant memory.
If that appt. wasn't enough, we also saw the ENT specialist about Brennan's ear tubes. Wouldn't you know it, the tube in his left ear has come out! Part of me was super excited, until the Dr. said...that he already has fluid buildup behind the ear drum. Great. So, he is on another course of darn antibiotics (we just finished some two weeks ago). And we will go back to have it checked in 4 weeks, as well as have a hearing test. But, the right ear looks great, tube still in place. Brennan's speech has improved immensely since the tubes were placed and I certainly do not want to take any steps back in that area.

So, it was quite an eventful day for our little guy. He was amazing all day, no one tear for any Dr.! He even sat all by himself in the big exam chair at the ENT office today. Wow, he sure is growing up fast! So after a long day...this is how he relaxes.

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Spring Break!

You remember when you were younger and spring break meant hanging out with friends, lounging by the pool, sleeping in, and doing whatever you wanted? Well, I really tried hard to snag a bit of the ol' Spring Break this past week, succeeding just a bit!


Having a week off was wonderful, although it went way too fast. The week started with a birthday party at Pump it Up, then a play date at Pump it Up, a trip to San Diego, a dinner with friends, and finally another birthday party! Phew!!!! But we did find time for lounging by the pool, hanging out with friends, and sleeping in....oh wait, there certainly wasn't any of that with my early risers around!

Our trip to San Diego was great! Nice hotel, complete with spacious rooms and free breakfast, a day at the beach and a day at Legoland. A perfect little retreat for all of us!
Here are a few pics to show off our fun.

"So I am supposed to go IN the water?"

Waiting in line....did that a lot at Legoland!

Is that the "cheesiest" smile ever????

Lots of love,

The Grady's

hoppy Easter!

We had a beautiful Easter this year. We woke up and headed out to church early. Little did we know that about 1,000 other people thought the early mass was the one to go to. We ended up sitting in the parish hall, because the church was completely packed, as well as the outdoor courtyard. But it was a beautiful service despite the cramped quarters. Then we headed to the Easter Egg Hunt with the Blacks.

Lots of eggs to be found!

Following the hunt we headed to my parent's house for a leisurely day of food, lounging by the pool (it was 91 degrees!) and watching basketball. It was a great way to celebrate in my opinion!

We hope your Easter was memorable as well!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Holidays= Injuries

So it wasn't until Tad brought it to my attention, but obviously holidays and Brennan don't mix. Let's back track a little:

• Birthday 05/05/05(that's a holiday right?), open heart surgeries
• St. Patrick's Day 2007, 6 hours at hospital with severe eye bruising and possible face fractures
• Christmas 2007, split skin open above eye after falling off the couch.
• Fast forward to Easter 2008, yes today and here we go again.

He slipped while getting out of the bathtub. He was standing up so I could get him out and smacked his chin on the side of the tub. I truly thought he had knocked some teeth out, but nope just decided to spilt his chin open instead. I think we are good with the liquid band aid and a butterfly band aid to keep his adorable face intact. So does he just need to be in a little bubble on holidays now?

Lots of love,
The Grady's

P.S. Easter details and pictures to come later...

The sweetest thing

I was tucking Emerson into bed, Brennan already in bed, our usual routine. When from down the hall I hear...

B: "Now I whay me, down to sweep"..."I pway the Lord, my soul to keep"

E: Is that Brennan saying prayers?????

M: Yes, sure sounds like it (all the while I am astounded he is practicing on his own!)

B: "As angels watch me, frew the night, untwil I wake in morning light" "AMEN!!!!"

E: (whispering) "Wow, mommy he did good!"

M: "I know!" (a little teary, he really was listening all those times!)

B: "In the name of the Father, Son,..............................Holy Spirit. AMEN!"

then silence again....

Lots of love,
The Grady's

May the luck of the Irish...

Erin Go Braugh!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

It's been awhile

since I have posted some recent pictures of the kiddos...so here you go!

A beautiful sunny day, I couldn't resist.

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Excuse my soapbox

I need to get on my soapbox for a moment...and I might just have to use my teacher's voice as well. My school district is one of many being affected by our state's budget cuts. We have a $13.4 million deficit that needs to be figured out. There have been many things that have been thrown on the bargaining table including cutting sports programs, counselors, extracurricular programs at the middle and high schools, taking away yearly raises for teachers, etc.

But, two things on the proverbial table really make me angry. First, they are proposing getting rid of 3rd grade class size reduction and possibly continuing that on down to 2nd and 1st grades as well. For those of you who don't know, at this time K-3 has a class size ratio of 20 to 1. With the removal of this, we would be allowed to have 35 students in each classroom, which is currently the limit in the 4th and 5th grades. They wonder why we struggle with raising CST test scores each year, and then they think that adding another 15 students into our classes will be a good solution to their budget issue...doesn't take a brain surgeon to realize that that is completely ludacris. Second, an even more disheartening option, is the release of potentially 118 teachers, because they are "not tenured" in the district. Meaning they haven't worked for 2 complete school years. I know many teachers and friends that fall in this category. It sickens me to think that some 70 year old teacher is keeping their job, even though they certainly don't have the heart for it anymore, and someone who just so happens to be "fresh meat" is being shoved out the door. Yet, there has been no mention of the fact that administration at the district level all make 6-figure salaries that certianly could be cut. Yet, we should consider compromising our student's education because they can't find other places to cut their "budget".

I read a quote tonight from a retired teacher that really hit home. She said "To run a school it takes two elements, students and teachers. If you do away with the student or the teacher, you no longer have a school.". She is very right. Yes, I realize that we will still have teachers, but can we really do our jobs if we are outnumbered by 35 to 1? Can we do our jobs if the student's are so crammed in classrooms that they don't have room to think? Can we really do our jobs if we are continued to be looked at as the first "logical" cut in a budget? Sure makes me feel appreciated.

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Random

1. Today is a gorgeous day outside, cannot believe that summer is almost here...not sure I am ready for 100+ degree temperatures.
2. I have been doing laundry for two days now and am still not done, how do 4 people dirty so many things?
3. I love mellow weekends, just hanging out with friends. Such a great time.
4. I don't really understand why Brennan needs to wear ear plugs while he has tubes in his ears. Aren't the tubes there to drain extra fluid out? So, why prevent fluid from going in, if there is not a problem in it coming back out?
5. I am dreading this week of work, I have this weird sense it is going to be a long one.
6. Jeff leaves Wed. morning for FL, I sure hope the kiddos are feeling like they want to be nice to mommy, because 5 days as a single parent is going to be tough.
7. Today is the first day in a week that I haven't had a headache and all I can say, it is heaven.
8. Can you believe we change our clocks next weekend? How great to have another hour of light at night, the kids will love that.
9. Is it weird that I am basically talking to myself right now, lol?!?
10. (just for Paige), I saw a t-shirt a few weeks back that I am still talking about because it just makes me laugh. Some big guy wearing a shirt that said "The village called, they need their IDIOT back"....(remember the book written by Hillary Clinton)

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Girls, girls, girls

This past weekend Tiffany and I headed up to Lake Arrowhead to have a girl's weekend with some moms from Emerson and Kaitlyn's school. We drove up Friday after work, straight into a nice winter storm. We were prepared for snow, ice, rain, whatever was handed to us....except the dense fog that we encountered. I have driven in fog hundreds of times, I mean we lived in Northern CA for years. But, I have never seen anything like this. You know it is bad when you can't see the hood of your own car and you are driving by the yellow dots on the left and the guardrail on the right. We made it to the top of the mountain and to our friend's house in a little over 2 hours.
The rest of the weekend was a lot less eventful, and an all around great time. We played board games, Wii, watched movies, and talked about anything you can imagine. What a great way to really get to know some of the other moms.
Can't wait to do it again!!!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Conversations with a 2 year old

Me: "Let's get you in your car seat."
Brennan: "No, ME do it!" (gotta love being 2!)
Me: "Fine, you do it, but we need to hurry."
Brennan: ...taking his sweet time getting up into the seat...
Me: "Okay, B, we gotta hurry, Mommy needs to go to work" (finally in his seat, while I am buckling him
Brennan: "But, Mama, if you go to work, who is going to drive the car?"
Me: "Well, you are!"
Brennan: "I, not big enough to drive, might crash."
Me: "Oh, okay, I guess I can drive today then." (close his door and walk around to the front)
Brennan: laughing, making car noises...."Me driving, Mama!!!!.....CRASH, Uh-Oh!"
Me: laughing...."Guess Mommy should drive, huh?"
Brennan: "Yes, please!"

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Happiest Bday on Earth!

Saturday afternoon we drove over to Anaheim with the Black's on our way to Disneyland. We met up with the Butier family, all to celebrate Mason and Kaitlyn's 5th birthdays. See, Mason and Kaitlyn were born literally 7 hours apart, on different days, 5 years ago. So, there was only way to celebrate their special days, and that would be at the happiest place on earth!
We had a great dinner at Joe's Crabshack Saturday night. That particular restaurant is a parent's dream dining place! It has a full-size playground on the premises, completely fenced in and visible during your meal. It is awesome!
Sunday we all headed into CA Adventure park for a fun filled day with rides, shows, and amusement park food. With the exception of a yummy Princess Lunch at Ariel's Grotto. The lunch was complete with apperances from 5 princesses!
You can imagine that our drive home Sunday was very quiet, all but the driver (ME!) was sound asleep before we even got onto the freeway.
Happy 5th birthdays, Mason and Kaitlyn!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Happy Heart Day!!!

Hearts, flowers, cards, candies, balloons, stuffed bears...

This is LOVE to me!

Happy Valentine's Day!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Cogential Heart Defect Awareness Week

February 7-14, 2008 has been named "Cogential Heart Defect Awareness Week". As you can imagine, this awareness week, is important to us. Please take some time this week to tell someone about this important week and what it means. Here are a couple of important facts to remember:

• 1 in every 100 babies is born with some form of a heart defect
• The cause of most heart defects is unknown, this is the reason why more research is needed.
• Most defects are not diagnosed right at birth, but often days and weeks later.
• CHD is the most frequently occuring defect in babies and the leading cause of birth defect related deaths.
• Most defects can be treated through surgery or dr. observations, although some can never be "cured".

Valentine's Day is the perfect time to bring families, health professionals, and local organizations together, and to draw attention to the needs of the congenital heart community. For more information you can look at http://www.tchin.org/

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Randomness

Wow, it has been some time since I have been here to post something...guess we have just been very busy with the craziness of daily life.
So I thought I share some of our randomness...

• Jeff took me away for a couple days to San Diego and Huntington Beach for my birthday. It was a great, few relaxing days just eating, shopping, watching the Superbowl and being by the beach.
• Emerson continues to love school and comes home each day with a handful of pages that she has worked hard on. She is now writing her first and last name so well!
• Brennan loves his blanket and elephant, yes a little stuffed elephant that goes EVERYWHERE with us. He is truly Charlie Brown's friend Linus, complete with thumb in the mouth.
• Took a field trip with my class yesterday up the Palm Springs Tramway. There was 2 feet of snow on the ground, and I think the teacher's had more fun than the kids!
• One of my best friends, Carrie, had a beautiful baby boy last night. I am SO excited for her!
• Jeff and Signarama just opened a brand new, 2nd location this past week. He has been very busy lately, but it is so exciting.
• I have a mountain of laundry to tackle this weekend....and often wonder where we accumulate all the dirty clothes!

Have a great weekend!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Parent Conference

We had Emerson's first parent conference yesterday, I am sure the first of many. At preschool, they do one parent conference a year to talk about how your child is doing. At the end of February, all the pre-K kiddos are taken over to the "big school" to be tested for Kindergarten. They are given an assessment that will test their knowledge of all upper and lowercase letters, numbers 1-10, body parts, writing their first and last name, they need to be able to tell what city they live in, and draw a self portrait with the appropriate parts. Her pre-K teacher gave them the same test to see what gaps might need filling for each student. I have to say it feels SO good to be a parent of the one the kiddos that doesn't really have any gaps. She needs to learn her city name, but that is about it. It was SO wonderful to hear that she is a good listener (not like when she ignores me at home!), that she like to learn new things, that she is very polite (instead of time like tonight when she is rude to her brother), and that she has made lots of new friends. We are so happy with this school and everything that it seems to be for Emerson too!



Lots of love,

The Grady's

Hi, my name is Kim, neurotic Mom #1

So, starting last week, I noticed that Brennan's feet seemed ridiculously cold, I mean like ice, every morning. Okay, I know, it is winter time, but really, after a night in SOCKS and under the covers it seems a little strange. Well, really the first thing that came to mind was the fact that his circulation must be compromised and his heart defect was somehow the cause. See his defect causes circulation and blood flow to be interrupted in his lower extremities, this was before his surgeries, but there is always a chance of recurrence. Now realize, that exactly 6 months ago we went to the cardiologist and got the all clear for the next 9 months. This the first time he has extended us to 9 months between appts., versus just 6, because everything has been so great. So back to right now, his feet are freaking cold. So, I call the ped. and they say, yeah probably nothing, but you better come in, knowing his history. So, we head in this afternoon and have a good listen to his heart. I mean a GOOD listen, like 5 solid minutes, all over his chest. Something to understand, Brennan's heart will never sound "normal", he will always have some sort of murmur and the amount of fluctuation with that murmur is what is important. So after the long listen, Dr. Coit looked back at his notes from previous appts. and found that his counts were within the normal range. He felt his pulse rates in his feet and his now "warm" feet (go figure!). Basically, he reassured me that all was well and there was no need to worry, yet he was glad I was attentive enough to call and come in. While we were in there, I decided to have him take a look at Bren's ear tubes, which were perfect too. Phew!

Needless to say, my anxiety over something small took over, but honestly, I would rather be safe than sorry.
Neurotic mom #1, reporting for duty!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Kings Fever

This past weekend Jeff and I flew up to Sacramento to see our friends, Stacy and Scott. We arrived Friday night, and headed out for a late dinner at this amazing new restaurant. Saturday morning we were actually able to sleep in a bit (past 7am!!!!), which is huge for Jeff and I. We decided to go wine tasting during the day. The weather was great and the wine was yummy.

Scott is the announcer for the Sacramento Kings basketball team. So, Saturday night we headed to the arena to watch him in action. To our surprise, not only did he get us tickets to the game, but really amazing 2nd ROW tickets! I mean, we were literally TWO rows behind where the Kings players sit. We were able to actually hear the coach running plays with the players. So amazing!!! Too bad the Kings lost!(No zoom lens here!)

Sunday we got up bright and early for breakfast with the Butier's and Vermillion's and then headed to the airport for our flight home.

Quite a whirlwind weekend, but well worth it. Stacy and Scott, thank you SO much for some good conversation, great laughs, we can't wait for next time!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Imagine my surprise

When, last night during our teeth brushing chores (yes, I call it a chore!)...I find a tooth breaking through the surface in Emerson's mouth. Yes, my 5 year old. She has finished brushing and I am helping her out with flossing and way in the back, behind what I thought were her last molars, is another tooth coming in. So, my being me, rush to the computer to look it up on the computer to figure out what in the world this tooth is. Turns out our little girl is getting her first permanent molar! Amazing. She hasn't complained or anything and boy, that is a big tooth back there!! The Internet said they usually come in between ages 6-7, and since she seems to be losing teeth and getting new ones earlier than others, I guess I shouldn't be too surprised. The joys of growing up.

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Pee here, Pee There, Pee Everywhere!!!

Okay, so I thought that my two week break from work would be a good time to get Brennan potty trained...but I guess I forgot to ask him if this would be a good time.

Day 1, talk about going potty on the toilet just like Emma does. Put on big boy underwear, Spiderman nonetheless. Get stock of treats ready for potty successes. 5 minutes after underwear is on, we make our first potty attempt, nothing. 2 minutes later, I hear screaming in the kitchen, pee all over the floor. Clean up, new underwear, and try the potty again, nothing. About half hour later, screaming in the hallway, pee everywhere! Give up on day one.

Day 2, same talk about potty on the toilet, big boy underwear, you all know the drill. SAME attempts on the potty, SAME accidents all over the freakin' house! Most on the tile floor, but lots on the carpet too. Finally, some actual potty success, which is rewarded with treats, phone calls to daddy and grandma and cheers and claps from mommy and sissy. Maybe we are getting somewhere...


Day 3, same ol' process, a little more success, but so many accidents still that I am just about done. I have cleaned up so much pee in the past three days, and done so many loads of laundry, I swear we went through all 10 pairs of underwear I bought him in a 6 hour time span!


But stubborn ol' me, will still attempt this same routine tomorrow...am I stupid?



Lots of love,

The Grady's

List...

Got this from another blog...go ahead, give it a try!



1. What did you do in 2007 that you’d never done before?
Traveled for work.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I don't remember making more than exercising and eating right. Pretty much, working out much more than I was at the beginning of the year.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Aimee had Maggie:) and a bunch of friends got pregnant

4. Did anyone close to you die?
Not this year thankfully.

5. What countries did you visit?
Mexico in February and Canada in August

6. What would you like to have in 2008 that you lacked in 2007?
hmmm...not sure, was pretty content in '07

7. What dates from 2007 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
no one date in particular

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
staying fairly balanced with home and work

9. What was your biggest failure?
ouch...I don't know

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
No.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
My new car:) I LOVE it!!!

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
The kids, they are truly blossoming

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Oh, I would rather not say

14. Where did most of your money go?
The kids! Daycare, school, dance class, diapers, clothes, etc.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Our annual scrapbook weekend, Jimmy Buffett concerts, Catalina Trip

16. What song will always remind you of 2007?
Kenny Chesney Summertime

17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a) happier or sadder?
Much happier. Very content.

b) thinner or fatter?
thinner

c) richer or poorer?
I wouldn't say richer by any means, but financially doing better.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
spent more time playing

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
wasted time on the computer.

20. How did you spend Christmas?
With my in-laws at their cabin outside Yosemite

21. Did you fall in love in 2007?
A little more each day.

22. What was your favorite TV program?
Grey's, Private Practice

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
While there are certainly people that make me nuts, I can't think of anyone I would use the word hate on.

24. What was the best book you read?
The last in the Harry Potter Series, couldn't put it down

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
not sure

26. What did you want and get?
a new car!

27. What did you want and not get?
An understanding of why people do certain things

28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Bourne Ultimatum

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I went out to dinner. Turned 31

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Peace, all around on every level

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2007?
Comfort and cute all wrapped up together

32. What kept you sane?
making my own down time

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
I don't fancy just one in particular, like to hear about all of them

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Immigration

35. Who did you miss?
Friends and family all around the country

36. Who was the best new person you met?
A new mom at Emerson's school, love meeting cool new people

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2007.
I can't do it all, I really do need to ask for help sometimes

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
Um...

New Year's..

I am still recovering...and no I didn't over-indulge. I am just recovering from travelling and being a full-time stay at home mommy and cleaning and doing laundry and well...you all know.
Anyway, New Year's weekend was great! We drove out to see our good friends, The Hargreaves in Arizona along with Tad, Tif, and the girls. We spent a few days there, kind of like a mini vacation for us. We rested, played at the park with the kids, played games, read books, visited, and ate and ate. It was a wonderful visit and a great way to end our year.
New Year's Eve was a perfect mix of good food, good drinks, fun games, and even better friends!
Thanks, Hargreaves...can't wait to do it again!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Favorite Things 2007

These are a few of my favorite things from the year...

• Spending New Year's with the Black's as they settle in the desert
• Going on a cruise with 7 other couples to Mexico, what a great trip!
• Taking our kids on their first camping trip, even if it was freezing cold
• Having one of my best friends, Carrie, visit from Ohio over spring break. We were even brave enough to take all 4 of our kids to Disneyland and the San Diego Zoo over a 3 day span and had a fantastic time.
• Remodeling our casita as a surprise for Jeff while he was in Asia with his dad
• Celebrating Brennan's 2nd birthday- he will always be our miracle baby, so every year is to be cherished
• Watching Emerson "graduate" from daycare, and leave Miss Patty's
• Flying to Iowa with Emerson to see another best friend, Christa and her family and have Carrie and Cameron join us as well!
• Making our third annual trip to Catalina Island to enjoy some rest and relaxation
• Watching both kids learn to swim
• Serving as a bridesmaid in my best friend's, since 4th grade, wedding in Sacramento, definitely one for the memory book
• Sharing a childhood memory with Jeff and the kids, by going to Seattle and San Juan Islands with my mom and Scott on their boat
• Attending TWO Jimmy Buffett concerts with great friends
• Moving my little boy to a big boy bed and watching my baby girl go to her first day of school
• Celebrating Emerson's 5th birthday, just where has the time gone
• Watching Emerson perform in her first Christmas Program at school, I am sure there will be many more in years to come
• Celebrating Christmas with Jeff's family, and being able to have a white Christmas, my first ever! And introducing the kids to SNOW!!!

We hope you had a wonderful Year 2007, we know how certainly blessed we were. We hope 2008 has as many memorable times as these.

Happy New Year!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

If this is what vacation is...then I am ready to go back to work!

What have I done so far today? Well, let's see...

Wash the dishes
Loaded the dishwasher
Cleaned the kitchen
Did three loads of laundry and folded the clothes from the 6 I did yesterday
played the new computer game with Emerson
Watched a show with Brennan
Picked up the toys and more toys and more toys
Ran to Target with both kids
Cleaned up the bathrooms
Took out the trash

It's only 1:45!!! Are you serious? I've got more laundry to do, finish cleaning the house, clean the garage and figure out what to make for dinner!

I could never be a full time stay at home mom!!! Phew!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Over the river and through the woods...

That about sums up the last 5 days for us...1000+ miles, over 15 hours in the car, 5 grandparents, 1 great-grandma, and a partridge....wait....you get the idea.

It all began Friday night as we headed north for our first Christmas on the road. We drove to Valencia (2 1/2hours), and stayed the night in a hotel, to help break up the drive. Saturday morning we headed out to Jeff's grandma's house in Visalia. We visited with Grandma, Nana Marie, and Uncle Mike. We had the chance to visit and celebrate an early Christmas with everyone.

Saying CHEESE at Great-Grandma's House

We left Sunday morning after breakfast and made our way through the mountains to Midpines, where Jeff's dad and Kathy had been preparing for Christmas at their cabin. The weather was certainly winter-like, minus the snow, but cold enough to sure put us in the mood. Upon waking Christmas Eve Day, we made the 45 minute trek to Yosemite. I must admit I was a bit disappointed when we first drove through the park gates and the weather outside felt like winter, but there was NO snow in sight. I was really hoping for a "White Christmas", but figured a "white" Christmas Eve would suffice. Well, my disappointment didn't last long, a short climb up into the park and before we knew it, a sea of white was all around. Emerson and Brennan, having only seen snow in pictures or on TV, were quite excited. We stopped at one of the many spots along the road and explored a bit. After a mere 10 minutes (maybe less), my little desert-babies were visibly shaking, even though we had gone to great effort to put on the hats, jackets, gloves, boots, etc. So, we made our way back to the car and drove further into the park. We spent the morning in the park, had lunch, and headed back to the cabin to prepare for Christmas Eve.

After we went to Mass in Mariposa, we had a fantastic dinner of ham and the fixings. We spent the rest of the night opening all our presents. The kids were really spoiled this year! Finally, settled them into bed, after making sure Santa had something yummy to eat.
Christmas morning we arose and found our stockings filled and more "Santa" presents under the tree. We packed up after breakfast and finally made our way back home Christmas Day, a long 7 hour drive back to La Quinta. And you would think we would head straight home...but the holiday would not be complete without a visit to the Black's house. Lucky us, we walked in just in time for dinner, pie, and a rousing game of Catch Phrase. What a perfect way to finish off a Merry Christmas.
We hope that you and your families enjoyed a beautiful and blessed Christmas as well.

Lots of love,

The Grady's

In case you were wondering...

I promise we really don't hurt our children on purpose...promise!


Within 10 minutes of being at Jeff's grandma's house on Saturday, our little rough and tumble boy decided he wanted all of our Christmas pictures to be special. We couldn't go for the normal, everyone dressed in their best, smiles for the camera, type shot. Nope, not this year.



He wanted to dress it up a bit more.

Black and blue, cut on the side, and another knot on the other side of his forehead. Yep, no doubt, 110% BOY!

Lots of love,

The Grady's

A Star in the Making?

Friday night was Emerson's first Christmas program. Sacred Heart School had their annual Christmas Program for all ages, PreK-8th grade. The program was to start at 630pm, but the girls were due at their school by 545pm. Good thing we arrived that early, because I jumped into a line of about 50 people that had already gotten there. By the time 6pm rolled around, the line was snaked around the entire church.

We found our seats and waited for the show to begin. PreK was first, so I rushed up to the front with all the other eager parents wanting to catch a glimpse of their children. And wouldn't you know it, our little girl was one of three little ones carrying the special silver star for their song.

Jeff and I always joke that we are raising Donny and Maire Osmond here, because Emerson and Brennan love to sing and perform. Wish I could say their talent for performing actually carried over into the actual singing part...but maybe that part takes extra practice. Anyway, she is quite an entertainer, good singer or not.

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Emerson's Birthday

Emerson was one lucky little girl! She had a whole week's worth of celebration for her birthday. It all started with a fun bbq at home with cake and presents.

Then a fun birthday celebration at school, complete with crown for the day.

Finally a birthday party with a bounce house and all her friends!

It sure is nice to be FIVE!!!!

Lots of love,

The Gradys

Little guys

A newborn update...Cole is home! Just had to share the latest picture of the Nanas boys, they are just too cute for words.

Coleman and Asher

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Happy Birthday, my little girl

Wow, five years already. It is really hard to imagine that five years ago, I was in labor with you. Daddy and I were so excited and so nervous about having our first baby, yet so anxious to know who you were and what you would look like, and of course if you were a boy or girl. That moment when they laid you on my chest and someone said "It's a girl!" will be forever ingrained into my memory. Emerson Blake entered our lives.

Now five years later, here we are and I wonder where the time has gone. It really seems like just yesterday we were driving home from the hospital with you snug in your seat. Just yesterday daddy and I sat on the couch, with you, wondering, "now what?". Just yesterday that you were 8 months old and taking your first steps. Just yesterday that you started to talk, later than all your friends, and I was worried that something was wrong...now I can't get you to stop!

You have always had this amazing smile that lights up a room. You have turned in a beautiful little girl, who loves to sing and dance. A little girl who enjoys playing with her friends every chance she gets. A little girl who loves her brother so much, and will stop playing with something to help him. A caring, considerate little person who genuinely loves others.

I know that I can't blink for even one second...because if I do, you will already be going on your first date, or graduating from high school or even getting married. Emerson, I don't know where the last five years have gone, but I do know that I wouldn't trade one moment of them for anything. I cherish every day I have with you and look forward to all the memories that are ready to be made.

I love you more than words, baby girl. Happy Birthday.

Twin Update

I had the privilege of visiting with Temma and Dror and baby Asher this past Sunday. Jeff and I made a trip out to Santa Monica for a training class for Jeff, and while he attended his class I hung out with the new family. Coleman is still hanging out in the NICU trying to "bulk up" before coming home to join his brother. I am amazed at how great they all are. The boys are literally half the size of my babies when they were born, and yet they don't appear all the small to me. Asher makes the cutest little squeaking sounds and is becoming quite the little eater too.
Oh and now I can share their full names!

Asher Dylan Nanas
and
Coleman Samuel Nanas

Congrats, again, Nanas Family!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Like new (at least to us!)

So Jeff and I did a little work on our master bathroom this past weekend. Just a few minor changes that make a world of difference for us! Check it out!

BEFORE

AFTER (tada!)

Lots of love,

The Grady's

Double Excitement!

My best friend from college, Temma, and her husband Dror, welcomed two beautiful, healthy baby boys this afternoon into their lives. Temma has been on bedrest for over a month now and successfully made it to 35 weeks before delivery. Asher and Coleman Nanas weighed in at 4lbs 12ozs, 4 lbs 5 ozs respectively. Mom and babies are doing great!

I will share pictures when I get them....I can't wait to see the little guys!

Congrats Nanas Family!!!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Boot Camp

So for the past four weeks, Jeff and I have been getting up, on alternating days, at 4:45am to go to Boot Camp. Yes, you read that right, Boot Camp. We had read about it in paper, heard about it from others, and finally looked it up online. It is called Desert Adventure Boot Camp. It is a exercise regime that goes three days a week from 5:30-6:30am. It started as a woman's camp designed to jump start a workout routine, but has exploded into 2 woman's camps and a men's camp.

A day at camp resembles something like this: Running anywhere from 1-4 miles, squats, lunges, weight training, squats, sit ups, push ups, squats, jumping rope, squats (did I already mention those?) and everything in between. It is like nothing either of us have ever done before. At first I thought I was crazy, and yes other's called me crazy. But, after about 2 sessions, I was addicted and couldn't wait to go back. Each night Jeff and I talk about how great we have felt that day, because of the good workout in the morning. Both of our energy levels have increased throughout the day.

Part of camp is a pre and post evaluation of your body, weight, body fat %, measurements, etc. I just did my post evaluation last Friday and if I wasn't convinced of the health benefits before, I sure am now. I have gained 8 pounds of muscle and lost 6 pounds of fat (how gross is that!?!). I have lowered my body fat % by 8% points. And I have lost 1 1/2 inches to my waist! Amazing.

And the craziest part about all of this....we are signing up for the next session! It starts this coming Monday after Thanksgiving, and I can't wait!

Lots of love,
The Grady's

A "hoppy" visitor

Emerson came home from school with a little stuffed friend on Friday. Each student has a turn in taking home the class "pet" Froggy for the weekend. You are supposed to take Froggy with you everywhere you go and take photos of your time spent with him. At the end of the weekend are supposed to journal about your experience with Froggy and add pictures to show to the class.

We had a great time including Froggy into our weekend, until of course I had to get the pictures for the journal pages. After three stores and finally a cooperative computer at Walgreen's we finished the journal and Emerson can share her adventures tomorrow in class.

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Girl's Weekend

It all started three years ago, the girls wanting a weekend to get away and get some uninterrupted scrapbooking time. We searched online and found this amazing ranch in the Santa Ynez foothills. Now, three years later we continue to head up to "Ree's House" to enjoy being pampered. YOu can check out her place at www.cricketcanyonranch.com. Ree is so wonderful to us each year, cooking great meals and just making us feel comfortable and relaxed. This year, some of the usual group was unable to make it. So it was myself, my mom, my sister, Tif, and her mom. After a bit of a long drive up there (took 1 hour longer than usual) we settled in nicely and had a fantastic weekend.
We had massages, went wine tasting, and of course, scrapbooked. I actually completed 32 pages! A record for me, but a good thing since I was so far behind and now feel a bit more caught up. Once again Ree did not disappoint and the trip rejuvenated all of us.
Pictures to come soon....they are on Tif's camera since I forgot mine...yep that's right, I forgot mine and Tif had hers (I will NEVER live that one down!)

Lots of love,
The Grady's

Ghosts and Witches and Fairies and Pirates

Halloween has never been a favorite holiday of mine. Not sure if it is the whole scary factor, or the fact that you have to dress up (really not a fan), or something else, but I really have never loved the holiday. Well, I think that might be starting to change...having kids does that to a person. The kids were so excited about Halloween and trick-o-treating and dressing up in their costumes.


I decided to put on my "Mom" hat for the day, and volunteer at Emerson's school. Which of course means that I had to call in "sick" at work, but it was well worth it. With both kids dressed, we dropped Brennan off at Patty's and headed to school. The kids began their day as normal with their flag salute and prayer and then inside their classrooms. Myself and the parents who were there to volunteer began to set up their own preschool carnival. We walked all 4 preschool classes through the carnival games. Then I went into Emerson's classroom to pass out snacks and help the teachers get ready for the school parade. The preschool and Kinder classes parade through the rest of the school showing off their great costumes. Then back to Em's classroom. It is now 11:30 am and I am reminded once again why I teach 8-9 year olds and not 4 year olds. Phew, I was exhausted!


Trick or treating that night was an experience all in itself. We were invited to our good friend's house for their annual Halloween dinner and trick or treating adventure. Turned out to be about 40 adults and almost an equal number of kids. Picture this, 30ish kids walking up to your door, all dressed, buckets ready for that yummy candy....yep, did that for about 12-15 houses! The looks on some people's faces were classic. The kids scored on buckets of candy (great, just what we need at home!) and plenty of great Halloween memories too.

Our Fairy Butterfly

Our Pirate

Lots of love,

The Grady's